Psychotherapy according to HPG

Bringing more life to life.

I belie­ve that peo­p­le who make use of the­ra­py are not ill, but cou­ra­ge­ous. If only becau­se they look whe­re it would be easier to be dis­trac­ted. And I am con­vin­ced that ever­yo­ne who starts doing inner work bene­fits from it. This is becau­se our ner­vous system reacts to chal­lenges in a cer­tain way: Whe­re­ver an expe­ri­ence is too chal­len­ging to respond to smooth­ly, the ner­vous system ensu­res that the expe­ri­ence is com­pen­sa­ted for intern­al­ly. With mecha­nisms that have pro­ven them­sel­ves over thou­sands of years. This is wise to pro­tect our­sel­ves,- and has the dis­ad­van­ta­ge that this pro­cess is not con­scious to our­sel­ves. The built-in com­pen­sa­ti­ons remain invi­si­ble and imper­cep­ti­ble, but per­ma­nent­ly redu­ce the ran­ge of life and expe­ri­ence.
The aim of the­ra­py is to gra­du­al­ly release more of this fro­zen life force so that it is available for other things: more ener­gy, more clear gut fee­ling, more know­ledge of what my life can look like. It is often the first the­ra­py expe­ri­en­ces that make roots more pal­pa­ble again and new move­ment more pos­si­ble. The­ra­py is thus also a step towards ones­elf: To that which is inher­ent in one’s own life in terms of strength and depth. 

Psychotherapy according to HPG in practice

I real­ly app­re­cia­te the­ra­peu­tic work: In my opi­ni­on, the­re is no other form of coun­seling that goes so deep­ly and has such a lasting effect. The fact that effects are often noti­ceable after a few hours is also due to the natu­re of the work: we dive deep, use body the­ra­py approa­ches to relax char­ges in the ner­vous system, use hyp­no­the­ra­peu­tic methods to rela­te to pre­con­scious con­tent, explo­re the iden­ti­ty that lies beneath ever­ything with NARM methods and is some­ti­mes alre­a­dy the ans­wer to ear­ly unfa­vorable exter­nal con­di­ti­ons. The syste­mic lens ensu­res awa­re­ness of eye level, inner ambi­va­len­ces and boun­da­ries of the inner pro­cess that must be respected. 

For example:

  • Working with an experienced health care worker to process stressful experiences following a client's assault.
  • Work with a young woman who experienced assault long ago, the after-effects of which are still evident in relationships and intimate contacts today.
  • Working with a young man who has uncovered his own issues through self-awareness, which he now wants to integrate more deeply and with direct support.
  • Work with a young woman who was more tense and irritable after an accident than before.
  • Working with an experienced manager in a corporate environment on the perception of feeling alone in difficult situations and having to fight your way through.
  • Working with a man on symptoms of insomnia and latent restlessness for which there seemed to be no triggers.
  • Working with a midlife woman on integrating early experiences of loss that involved a fundamental fear of closeness.
  • Work with a woman after an inpatient stay in a psychosomatic clinic, in order to accompany the transition into everyday life well and to transfer what has been learned.

What it could be about:

Burnout, exhaustion & depression

Clarify what has been in the way of the life force so far

Often peo­p­le come inward­ly sub­dued, list­less, drai­ned. Or they don’t even know what they are the­re for — just that some­thing is not going well right now. Some­ti­mes this is asso­cia­ted with ten­si­on in the body or latent rest­less­ness. Some­ti­mes so quiet that you could almost miss it. We take a clo­ser look at what it is actual­ly about and what it would take to bring more power back into life. 

Learning to live with intensity and discharge activation

Inner rest­less­ness, strong fee­lings, chro­nic stress or the fee­ling of being very thin-skin­ned: We look deeper behind sym­ptoms and reli­e­ve the ner­vous system whe­re ener­gy is mobi­li­zed. No mat­ter if you know the sto­ry about it or not. 
Fear, Anger & Grief
Crisis & Trauma

Finding life through the crisis

Cri­ses are chan­ges that are or were too much to respond to fluid­ly with on-board resour­ces. The ner­vous system then takes over the role of regu­la­ti­on and ensu­res that the rest can con­ti­n­ue to func­tion. Some­ti­mes this goes hand in hand with a lot of emo­ti­on, some­ti­mes with sur­pri­sin­gly litt­le. We look at what it takes to get back on the ground and get the ner­vous system well connected. 

Build more vibrant relationships

For many peo­p­le, deep and authen­tic rela­ti­on­ships don’t come natu­ral­ly, wit­hout you being able to pin­point exact­ly why. Tog­e­ther we look at what stands in the way of deeper cont­act and open the space for new expe­ri­en­ces. This often chan­ges the cont­act to others — and the clo­sen­ess to oneself. 
Contact
Framework of our work

How it could go further

I work the­ra­peu­ti­cal­ly in pro­ce­s­ses in which we work on deeper issues over about 3–4 months with 8 indi­vi­du­al ses­si­ons. If you would like to get to know this work, we can meet for a tri­al ses­si­on. After this, we both deci­de whe­ther to con­ti­n­ue with the initi­al pro­cess. Befo­re this ends, we cla­ri­fy whe­ther we should con­ti­n­ue with the next pro­cess, take a break or finish the work. 
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Overview of the playing fields
Overview of the playing fields
Voices about my work
Voices about my work
Principles of my work
Principles of my work
My background
My background